First time with muddy fields

[stuckfanjay]

Just a simple " I made a wrong turn and pulled in here to find my bearings" would suffice perfectly.
Maybe an evening drive out nto the country is in order... would serve two purposes... 1 locate some possible locations to revisit, and 2 help build your confidence with being out and about while dressed. ( which you're gonna have to get used to pretty quickly given the info you've shared with us)

[Blackadder261]

@stuckfanjay Yeah, I suppose so. Generally speaking I'm comfortable dressing femme, just that dressing up in a specific outfit and going out with this intent for some reason causes the nerves. (That said, I don't tend to dress femme at work but that's for other reasons)

I've scouted a few locations on google maps but yeah, some on-the-ground verifying may be of use.

[stuckfanjay]

If a "certain outfit" is a bit outta your comfort zone, start out dressed down.
Perhaps jeans, a nice sweater, and heeled boots, then work your way into maybe a longer casual skirt, sweater and mid height heels and then when you're more comfortable with it go all out for the office attire or formal attire.
Play the "lost real estate agent" or the "real estate agent on assignment"

[Blackadder261]

@stuckfanjay That's a possibility to be fair, though I do still think it's just the act of going out and trying to get stuck that's causing the bulk of the anxiety. Will give that a go sometime later in the month though, got some tight riding pants and heeled boots to try with.

[stuckfanjay]

You're also thinking in the frame of mind "getting stuck on purpose ", although yes that's exactly what you're doing, the only person in the world that is aware of that is.... YOU! To a passersby, you're simple a girl that has messed up and gotten herself stuck.... and that's it! That simple!

PS, love the tight riding pants in heeled dressy boots look

[Blackadder261]

@stuckfanjay Not a bad plan tbh. I'm meant to be going out for a work colleague's leaving do on Friday so might dress up nice and go out for an adventure after that.

[stuckfanjay]

There ya go... one tiny moment of inattention and zzzzzzzz oops

[sirstuck]

@westfil11 said in First time with muddy fields:

@sirstuck

Your truck gets very stuck in your yard

I had to work at it. The situation here would be much more profound.

[stuckboy]

@Blackadder261 said in First time with muddy fields:

@stuckfanjay Yeah, I suppose so. Generally speaking I'm comfortable dressing femme, just that dressing up in a specific outfit and going out with this intent for some reason causes the nerves. (That said, I don't tend to dress femme at work but that's for other reasons)

I've scouted a few locations on google maps but yeah, some on-the-ground verifying may be of use.

Same here. Love also dressing fem., but only for stuck-games

[stuckboy]

@stuckfanjay said in First time with muddy fields:

You're also thinking in the frame of mind "getting stuck on purpose ", although yes that's exactly what you're doing, the only person in the world that is aware of that is.... YOU! To a passersby, you're simple a girl that has messed up and gotten herself stuck.... and that's it! That simple!

PS, love the tight riding pants in heeled dressy boots look
Exactly thats IT

[stuckfanjay]

@stuckboy

[stuckboy]

@stuckboy said in First time with muddy fields:

@stuckfanjay said in First time with muddy fields:

You're also thinking in the frame of mind "getting stuck on purpose ", although yes that's exactly what you're doing, the only person in the world that is aware of that is.... YOU! To a passersby, you're simple a girl that has messed up and gotten herself stuck.... and that's it! That simple!

PS, love the tight riding pants in heeled dressy boots look
Exactly thats IT

But Love more tight Blues miniskirt, tight White Blouse and nylonslip

[Jonnyxx]

@Blackadder261 I'm so happy than u've achieved some small goals. About anxiety it's the same for me, I prefer to see someone stuck but if this happens I feel a little nervous.
I think than u look very cool stuck with your outfit! ️

[Blackadder261]

I think I've got an outfit picked out for Friday at any rate, as I'm supposed to be out with work for someone's leaving do; still need to find some better spots to go to unlike last weekend but I'm sure I'll manage.

[stuckfanjay]

I love the long skirt and the boots! Dressy yet casual.

[stuckfanjay]

How did your Friday night get together go? Hope you had a little adventure afterwards too

[Blackadder261]

@stuckfanjay Ended up not going out after it in honesty, didn't feel like it

My car goes for an MOT next Friday so I'm holding off until after that.

[stuckfanjay]

@Blackadder261 How was your outfit recieved?

[Blackadder261]

@stuckfanjay Not much comment on it at all to be honest, which suits me just fine ^_^ I'm just comfy being accepted as who I am.

[stuckfanjay]

I certainly liked the long skirt and the boots... excellent combo. Casual dressy